A day of colour, culture and family

A Nigerian traditional engagement is one of the most joyful days in any family's calendar. Across the UK, from Manchester to London, couples are bringing the full beauty of this ceremony to community halls and event venues, complete with gele, agbada, aso oke and plenty of dancing.

Whether you're the bride, the groom, a parent or a guest, what you wear matters. Here's our guide to getting your traditional engagement look just right.

For the bride

All eyes are on you, so this is the outfit to go all out on.

Aso oke: the classic choice for a Yoruba engagement, often paired with a beaded lace blouse, a matching gele and an ipele (shoulder sash).
Beaded or sequin lace: a fitted lace gown or iro and buba in rich colours like gold, wine, royal blue or emerald.
Two looks: many brides change outfits during the day, so consider a second, lighter outfit for the reception and dancing.

For the groom

The groom's outfit should match the bride's colours and stand tall beside her.

Agbada: the ultimate statement for a traditional engagement, made in aso oke, damask or embroidered fabric with a matching fila (cap).
Buba and sokoto: a sharp, comfortable option underneath the agbada, or on its own for a lighter look.
Coordinate with the bride: choose the same aso oke or a fabric in a matching colour so you look like a pair in every photo.

For parents and family

The families of the bride and groom often wear their own colours to stand out from the guests.

Mothers: elegant lace or aso oke iro and buba, with a bold gele.
Fathers: a classic agbada or a dignified senator set with a fila.
Siblings and close family: wear the family's chosen aso ebi so everyone is easy to spot.

Talk to the couple early to find out the family colours before you order.

For guests

As a guest, you want to look your best without stealing the couple's spotlight.

Wear the aso ebi if the couple has chosen one. It's the best way to show your support.
No aso ebi? Go for a lace gown, an Ankara dress or a smart senator or kaftan in a colour that complements the theme.
Avoid wearing the bride's main colour unless you've been asked to.
Comfort counts: UK venues can be cold, so bring a wrap, and choose shoes you can dance in.

Get your engagement outfits made in Manchester

At Deright Fashion Store, we make bespoke engagement outfits for brides, grooms, families and guests, including matching couple sets and full aso ebi orders.

Share your colours and style, or send us a picture of what you love.
Get measured at our Manchester store on Broughton Lane, Salford, or book a free virtual fitting from home.
Allow 15–20 working days for each outfit. For big family orders, order early.
Collect in store or have your outfits delivered anywhere in the UK or worldwide.

Congratulations to every couple planning their big day. May your union be blessed. Call or WhatsApp us on 07452831769, or visit derightfs.com.

Frequently asked questions

What does a bride wear to a Nigerian traditional engagement? Usually aso oke with a lace blouse, gele and ipele, or a beaded lace gown or iro and buba.

What does the groom wear? An agbada over buba and sokoto with a matching fila, in fabric that matches the bride.

What should a guest wear? The couple's aso ebi if there is one. If not, a lace, Ankara or senator outfit in a complementary colour.

How early should I order engagement outfits? At least 4–6 weeks before the date. Each bespoke outfit takes 15–20 working days, and bigger family orders need more time.

What to Wear to a Nigerian Traditional Engagement in the UK